Hey sports mom, want your daughter to finally...
Have the Mental Skills and Confidence to Play Hard, Bounce Back from Mistakes, Have Fun, and Reach Her FULL Potential in Sports AND Life?
The Elite Mental Game
Trusted by over 10,000 athletes
The #1 self-paced mental training system to build your girl athlete's confidence and mental game, so she doesn't hold herself back in her sport… or life!
The Complete ELITE MENTAL GAME Self-Paced Training System
+ 3 Months of Bonus Live Coaching & Support
Lifetime access to The Elite Mental Game: Athlete Core Performance System + the Parent Success System
($3,000+ value)
Bonus #1: 3 Months Athlete Level-Up Group Coaching Calls
($750 value)
Bonus #2: 3 Months Private Athlete Community with Personalized Coaching from Our Certified Coaches
($1,000 value)
Bonus #3: 3 months Coach-On-Call Unlimited Text/Email Coaching
($1,250 value)
Bonus #4: Sports Moms Inner Circle Community: all parents get access — we'll support you in supporting your athlete
(Unlimited value, lifetime access)
Join Today: Ditch the Drama Training Bundle: Rise Above Teammate Drama & Thrive Under Challenging Coaches
($300 value)
Valued at over $7,000*
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Your athlete can start building the tools for pressure, mistakes, and confidence today—before another practice, tryout, or season asks her to face those moments without them.
this program works!
- Ashley, sports mom to Ava and Addison, soccer players & Elite Mental Game athletes
Sports mom,
Do you feel like your athlete daughter is struggling with her mental game, staying out of her head, and/or confidence?
answer these quick assessment questions:
1.
Does she beat herself up instead of bounce back from mistakes?
2.
Does she get overly nervous before and/or during games?
3.
Do you brace yourself for the postgame drama during car-rides home?
4.
Do you feel like all of your attempts at being her cheerleader are met with eye-rolls, snarky remarks, bad attitudes, the silent treatment, and/or full blown arguments?
You Cheer:
"You've got this!", "You are good enough!", "You belong on this team!"
She responds:
"Mom, you just don't get it!", "You're just saying that cause you're my mom!", "I was horrible!"
If you answered "YES!" to any of the above questions and you resonate with these common statements...
your daughter may be inwardly LOSING her personal MENTAL GAME
(and it's holding her back!)...
Worse still, you could be experiencing a wedge in your relationship with your daughter that may only grow deeper without the right tools to bridge the gap.
That's the bad news.
The GOOD NEWS is that we have a proven solution!
More on that in a sec, but first, you may be wondering WHY this is a problem?
How We Do Anything is How We Do Everything!
You see, just as children develop critical life skills through play...
sports play for your high schooler provides the perfect opportunity to develop the skills she needs for life
(that's likely why you have her in sports after all)...
but ONLY If she has the tools to navigate what she faces in her sport!
How she handles that mistake in a game is how she will handle them in academics.
That hesitation on the court is also holding her back from opportunities in her life.
Her inability to stand up for herself with teammates and coaches also leaves her susceptible to being passed up and walked over in other relationships.
To succeed in her sport - and in the game of life - you know that your athlete daughter must be able to:
Learn from mistakes instead of being haunted by them
Perform well under pressure instead of breaking down
Make personal tweaks and improvements instead of giving up
Take smart and calculated risks without negative self-talk and perfectionism
Reach her full potential so she can thrive, enjoy success - live a happy life
As she conquers the 'mental game' during off-season, pre-season, in-season, and in every single game, she will rise to the top of her game in her sport.
…and she will have the mental and emotional tools, and confidence to:
Excel in school and scholastics
Develop healthy and positive relationships - she'll be able to stand up for herself, have more self awareness and assurance, and have an assertive attitude needed to repel peer pressure
Creating healthy boundaries needed for peak performance while AVOIDING the 'people-pleaser trap' and the 'comparison trap' played out in social circles and on social media - an epidemic issue among teen girls
And later in life, she'll use these same skills to land a great job… start a successful business… make the world a better place!
Mind Over Matter...
The internet, books, magazines, and documentaries are all littered with the stories of top pro athletes winning championships with the help of elite mental training.
Simone Biles
Gymnastics
Following her performance and struggle with 'twisties' and eventual withdrawal from those same Olympic games, the most highly anticipated athlete in gymnastics, became a mental health advocate because of the impact the mind had on her performance at the highest level of sports in the world.
Katie Ledecky
Swimming
Seven-time Olympic gold medalist and record-breaking swimmer, 24-year-old Katie Ledecky discussed the importance of mental health after winning several additional gold and silver medals at the 2020 Olympic Games in Tokyo.
Victoria Garrick
Volleyball
College volleyball player, PAC-12 Champion, and record breaker, Victoria Garrick has started a mental health non-profit to address the mental, not the physical, challenges young athletes face.
…There's a reason the best athletes in the world prioritize this. The mental game isn't just real — it's trainable, just like any physical skill.
Every successful college, professional, and Olympic athlete today practices the mental side of their game. The good news is, your daughter can learn these skills NOW! She doesn't have to wait, in fact - she can't afford to.
Bottomline, mental training is the piece you've been missing!
Let's hear it from the girls...
Athletes Love The Elite Mental Game
If you're ready to see your daughter master the mental game and gain elite-level confidence…
Enroll in The Elite Mental Game!Demystified
3 Harmful MYTHS Moms Believe...
As a loving mom, I KNOW you say and do everything you possibly can to help and encourage your athlete daughter when she's struggling.
Sadly, what most moms do to help only causes more hurt. She feels more pressure, more misunderstood, and more isolated from you with every encouragement.
Many moms are left backing off, crossing their fingers, and hoping for the best.
Here's the 3 most common harmful myths moms unknowingly pin their hopes on:
1
Harmful Myth #1: "Her Coaches Are Teaching Her to Play with Confidence"
Reality:
Yikes – don't count on it! Coaches are trained to teach athletes the physical skills of the game, not the mental practices they need to execute those skills under pressure.
I've been a head coach for 12+ years, and believe me when I say – 99% of coaches are NOT teaching their athletes the mental side of the game.
2
Harmful Myth #2: "She Will Naturally Build Confidence with Experience"
Reality:
She won't! Confidence does NOT come naturally with time; it's a skill that needs to be learned and practiced to grow in it. Your daughter may feel a wave of happiness from having a good game here and there but she will NOT gain lasting confidence and develop mental strength from making great plays and scoring more points.
She has to master the mental side of the game and start flexing her new confidence skills first – and then she'll start playing to her fullest potential.
3
Harmful Myth #3: "This is 'Just A Phase' That She Will Grow Out Of"
Reality:
Mom – this is NOT a phase. Every time your daughter reaches a new level in her sport, the pressure to achieve will only increase.
That's why 70% of girl athletes quit before the age 13 - because they don't feel like they can live up to all the expectations and they don't have the mental and emotional tools to manage their stress.
LIFE…is even harder, right mom?
But remember this, LIFE...is even harder, right mom?
And 'how she does anything is how she'll do everything'.
If she doesn't gain the mental and emotional tools to thrive under pressure in her sport, she may become one of the 70% who quits in her sport and stops setting ambitious, worthwhile goals - settling for less, instead.
IF YOU'RE LIKE MOST MOMS WHO ENROLL THEIR DAUGHTERS INTO THE ELITE MENTAL GAME, YOU'RE HERE BECAUSE YOU'RE COMMITTED TO HELPING YOUR DAUGHTER PLAY WITH CONFIDENCE – BUT NOTHING HAS WORKED SO FAR.
Here's the piece you've been missing:
The best athletes don't just work on the physical skills of their sport …they're also dedicated to practicing their mental game.
Putting in more hours at the gym, having better discipline, and 'getting tough' is not what your daughter needs to do to achieve her goals as an athlete.
And ….
Her coach likely isn't teaching this part of the game (yet expects her to be 'mentally tough' and confident)
Instead, you need to:
Equip your daughter with mental training that shows her how to:
Recover quickly from mistakes
Feel confident in her abilities
Thrive even with a less-than-ideal coach or drama among teammates
Overcome nerves
Flip her negative self-talk
Release her anxiety about letting others down and the need to be perfect
Have fun and enjoy playing her sport!
don't just take our word for it...
"My daughter went from getting openly upset on the court if she made a mistake to being a calm, level-headed, and positive leader for her team...I also love how much her confidence has increased – you can just see it when she plays."
- Holli, mom to Sienna, basketball player & Elite Mental Game athlete
ENROLL TODAY & GAIN LIFETIME ACCESS TO:
The Elite Mental Game
The #1 mental training program to build your girl athlete's confidence and mental game, so she believes in herself and plays like it... no matter what.
Watch Your Daughter Rapidly Transform Into a Fearlessly Confident, Mentally Strong Athlete and Effortlessly Overcome:
Fear of failure
Fear of what others think
Fear of mistakes
Negative self-talk
Inconsistent performance
Crumbling under pressure
Not playing to potential
Nerves and anxiousness
Perfectionism
Comparison
Yes, we coach
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Different sport. Same mental skills.
Whether your girl athlete is competing in an individual or team sport, our program speaks to any sport and any age.
sports mom, it's time to...
Stop the spiral after mistakes. Stop the self doubt and beating herself up.
Meet her 5 step solution to confidence and a strong belief in herself... so she can play to her potential and have FUN!
Here's a Sneak Peek Inside
The Elite Mental Game
Upon enrollment, your daughter will go through her 5 phase, mental game training system, which includes:
Recover Quickly From Mistakes & Stop The Spiral
Phase 1 - Bounce Back in a Snap
She'll immediately create her personalized Snap Back Routine™ and start practicing it - to shake off mistakes and stop the spiraling... instantly.
Game Changing Mindset Training, like the pros!
Phase 2 - Mental Game Foundations
She'll gain all the mental training and tools she needs to believe in herself and play her best, no matter the circumstance!
Including - visualization, breath work, setting big goals, flipping negative thinking, and no more beating herself up!
Perform Consistently From Practice to Game Day
Phase 3 - High Performance Game Plan
Create a pre-performance game plan so she can overcome nerves and show up ready to compete - every time!
She'll excel under pressure and adapt when things don't go as planned.
And she'll create a post-competition game plan to fairly assess her performance and have a plan to improve.
Prepare For & Overcome Challenges
Phase 4 - Mental Edge Toolkit
Your daughter will get equipped with tangible strategies and mindset tools to handle any unique challenges that come up on her journey.
We're talking about navigating perfectionism & comparison, preventing burnout, coming back from injuries, handling stress and setbacks, how to be a leader, and so much more.
Get The Most Out Of Your Mental Game Training
Phase 5 - Make It Stick
Your daughter will show up more confident and consistent in her play, and know how to handle any challenge that comes her way.
Now, she'll discover how to continue using the tools she's learned and keep the momentum going, season after season!
Including off-season training plans, a process to kick-off a new season and how to close out one season before moving on, navigating new opportunities, disappointments... and more!
Once inside The Elite Mental Game, she'll have...
30 min/week training plan with short, on-demand videos
A psychology-based mental training system to build her mental game in as little as 30 mins a week with short 5-15 minute videos + activities. She can go as fast or as slow as she'd like, and she'll build a mental game like the pros!
Accessible on any device, at any time!
Personalized coaching on each training she completes
She'll receive coaching, support, and encouragement from our Elite Competitor Coaches on each training she completes, ensuring she's supported on this journey!
A fun and rewarding game so she's never bored & is excited to learn
The attention span of teens and tweens is like a goldfish. So we keep it short, engaging, and rewarding with points and surprise gifts!
shhh... don't tell!
Her Elite Mental Game Training Grows With Her
Your lifetime access means there's no "getting behind" — ever. The training system supports her in the pre-, during-, post-, and off-season... and grows with her as she faces new challenges and levels in her sport!
Ready to get started?
Choose The Elite Mental Game enrollment option that works for your family.
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The only program you'll need - mom, we've got you covered too!
Inside... you'll quickly see why our approach to mental training is different than anything out there - your role matters.
As an Elite Mental Game family, you'll have access to proven strategies on:
helping her overcomE mistakes
You play a big role here! Help your athlete stop the spiral after mistakes so she can bounce back, play her best, and have fun
What TO Say before, during, & after games
Learn what she needs to hear before, during, and after competitions to ease her nerves, build her confidence, and avoid the post-game car ride meltdown
Supporting When She's Hard On Herself
How to support through self-doubt, comparison, jealousy, perfectionism, negative thinking, and more
Increasing Motivation & Effort
Learn key strategies to help when your athlete is lacking motivation or effort
Navigating Setbacks
Know how to help your athlete navigate common setbacks - disappointments with playing time, injury, feeling burnt out, and more
being an effective parent & coach
Being a parent and coach can be a tough line to walk. Learn how to do it effectively
Sports Moms Inner Circle Community
Once you join The Elite Mental Game, all parents get access to our community and parent coaches — we'll support you in supporting your athlete.
...and so much more!
Never be stuck in the 'what to say or do' dilemma again.
Enroll in The Elite Mental Game!Hear what other moms have to say after joining...
The Elite Mental Game
Trusted by over 10,000 athletes
The #1 self-paced mental training system to build your girl athlete's confidence and mental game, so she doesn't hold herself back in her sport… or life!
The Complete ELITE MENTAL GAME Self-Paced Training System
+ 3 Months of Bonus Live Coaching & Support
Lifetime access to The Elite Mental Game: Athlete Core Performance System + the Parent Success System
($3,000+ value)
Bonus #1: 3 Months Athlete Level-Up Group Coaching Calls
($750 value)
Bonus #2: 3 Months Private Athlete Community with Personalized Coaching from Our Certified Coaches
($1,000 value)
Bonus #3: 3 months Coach-On-Call Unlimited Text/Email Coaching
($1,250 value)
Bonus #4: Sports Moms Inner Circle Community: all parents get access — we'll support you in supporting your athlete
(Unlimited value, lifetime access)
Join Today: Ditch the Drama Training Bundle: Rise Above Teammate Drama & Thrive Under Challenging Coaches
($300 value)
Valued at over $7,000*
Choose the enrollment option that works for your family
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100% Money Back ‘Triple-Impact Guarantee’
Your athlete can start building the tools for pressure, mistakes, and confidence today—before another practice, tryout, or season asks her to face those moments without them.
Psst - This program will strengthen your athlete's mental game immediately - but it's also so fun & rewarding for your athlete to be part of!!
As your daughter finishes the short trainings and learns new mindset tools, she'll collect points and earn prizes! The Elite Mental Game will build up your daughter and recognize the progress she makes every week.
Don't tell her the surprise... But, she'll earn an elite competitor bracelet and more!
Want a sneak peak inside?!
The Elite Mental Game is a really powerful, unique experience for both athletes and parents! Check out how it works and what you'll experience inside...
Here's the picture I want to paint for you with our
Triple Impact Experience
Guarantee
1
THE ATHLETE SHIFT
WITHIN THE FIRST COUPLE OF WEEKS, YOU'LL START HEARING SOMETHING LIKE THIS FROM HER:
'Mom/Dad this actually helps!'
2
THE PARENT SHIFT
WITHIN THE FIRST COUPLE OF WEEKS, YOU'LL START THINKING THIS YOURSELF, OR HEARING IT FROM HER COACH:
'What's different with [your daughter]?'
'She seems more confident!'
'Great job at practice today!'
3
THE RESULTS SHIFT
HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL START TO SEE:
Faster recovery from mistakes
Better pre-game mindset
Improved confidence
This is a one-time investment — and your daughter's mental game will pay dividends for life.
BACKGUARANTEE
If within 14 days of enrollment you haven't experienced these shifts inside The Elite Mental Game, simply email us and we'll refund your investment in full — no questions asked.
Ready to get started?
Here's exactly what happens next:
Enroll with the payment option that works best for your family
Add your athlete(s) and partner/spouse (this can also be done later)
Check your email / text for a link to The Elite Mental Game training portal
Login on any device, any time and get started!
Your 3 months of Athlete Level-Up Group Coaching Calls and Coach-On-Call text/email support start with your enrollment.
Join our Sports Moms Inner Circle Facebook community!
Watch her mental game & confidence transform as she goes through the short trainings and is supported by our certified coaches… and YOU with your new game plan!
Questions? Just email us at hello@elitecompetitor.com. We're here for you!
you'll know just what to say & do – like colleen...
"The [Elite Mental Game] showed me how to talk to my athlete daughter without sounding like 'that' parent –the one who constantly nags, says the wrong things, or puts undue pressure on her… Now, I know what to say and do to instill confidence in her; this is priceless to me."
-Colleen, mom to Amelia, high school volleyball player & Elite Mental Game athlete
and amelia recently told us...
"Even when I'm on the court, I can look back at her and she knows how to help me, instead of just guessing. So, it's definitely strengthened our relationship."
I believe that our daughters should get to experience long-term success as athletes.
It breaks my heart when I see female athletes quit because they're comparing themselves to others, feeling like they're not good enough, and stressing about the pressures to perform.
Mental game training has made all the difference for my athletes.
The information you'll find inside The Elite Mental Game has helped thousands of moms to feel confident in their role as a sports mom …
… and thousands of daughters to play at their highest potential and love their sport again.
The mindset tools you'll gain in The Elite Mental Game are the same tools I would not coach my own teams without.
The positive transformation and confidence boost you'll see in your daughter after joining The Elite Mental Game will happen almost immediately – in the way she talks about herself, believes in her abilities, plays with confidence, and interacts with others on her team and in her life.
Equally important is the transformation you'll see almost immediately in yourself, too, Mom. You'll know exactly what to say and do to build confidence in your daughter and how to create the best possible environment for her success.
The Elite Mental Game is a gift I want for all athlete daughters and sports moms.
I am so excited to have you join us. If you have any questions about the program, don't hesitate to send me a personal message.
-coach bre
Why The Elite Mental Game, and Not Something Else
You may have already tried a sports psychologist, a confidence book, or a generic mindset app. Here's the difference.
Built for girl athletes
The Elite Mental Game isn't a general confidence program adapted for athletes, it's built from the ground up for girl athletes specifically: the pressure, the comparison, the mistakes, the teammate drama, the exact things she's actually up against.
Skills she can use today
This is performance coaching — tangible mental skills she can use in the next 10 minutes, at her very next practice or game.
A real, current coach
Coach Bre isn't a mental performance 'coach' who's never actually run a team, she's a current, real high school coach, 14 years coaching girl athletes, 4 state championships, who built this because she needed it for her own team.
Moms (and Dads!) gets taught too
Unlike most programs that train the athlete and leave parents guessing, you get taught too, so what she's learning inside the program doesn't get undone in the car ride home.
Enjoy a closer relationship with your athlete daughter and so much more.
Your daughter is likely in high school (or will be soon), you know that time flies and before you know it she'll be driving…walking across the stage…going off to college…landing her first job…and building her own life.
All the encouragement tactics you've been trying aren't working and may be driving your daughter farther away from you. She may feel like she can't trust you because "you just don't get it."
Our Unique Parent Trainings...
and community will give you all the tools you'll need to win her trust, grow closer together, and become the dynamic mom-and-daughter-duo you want for your relationship.
This world-class mental training program will immediately be tested in every single game competition she plays, which will instill the mental muscle and confidence she needs to win in the game of life.
She'll face and overcome life challenges with confidence.
The mental techniques your daughter learns over the next 6 months will equip her to achieve every goal she sets over the next 60 years!
Your daughter WILL thank you for the investment you made into her mental game, perhaps soon, but certainly later in life as she uses the skills she learns to reach her life goals.
Enroll in The Elite Mental Game!Ready to Raise a Confident Athlete Daughter?
You will have full access to The Elite Mental Game Training System, with lifetime access to the training, the same mental game training that championship athletes use for peak performance during each phase of their sport (Pre, During, Post, and Off-Season).
This is the best contribution you can make to your athlete daughter's sports career, and to every goal she wants to achieve in life. We are so excited to welcome you into The Elite Mental Game with the payment option that works best for your family.
Enroll in The Elite Mental Game!have a positive impact on your whole family
"Your passion, talents, experience, and program are needed by young women and are already making a difference for our family. I feel like I've been given a gift that will keep on giving for my girls. Thank you!"
-Bonnie, mom to Melissa, gymnast & Elite Mental Game athlete
"When Lauren first started the program, she was somewhat skeptical, but she has fully embraced it and is genuinely committed to applying what she is learning. At a tournament, her opponent disputed a call and Lauren was understandably upset. Instead of spiraling like she has in the past, she used the breathing techniques and mental skills she's been working on, regained her focus, stayed composed, and won the match in about five minutes. She carried that momentum through the rest of the tournament and won the entire event."
-Jennifer Schindler, parent, tennis
"I had a lacrosse game today and had 3 goals! I had a moment before my draw after I missed a shot where I used my snapback routine and I won the draw then scored!"
-Callie, athlete, lacrosse
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